Family law | Family Mediation | Marriage | Mediation | Unmarried Couples What happens at a Mediation Meeting? Read more It goes without saying that family law-related issues should be resolved by agreement if possible, rather than through the courts. But often the parties need help to reach agreement. This is where family mediation comes in. Family mediation is a voluntary process of assisted negotiation, where an independent, professionally trained, mediator helps couples resolve issues. Family mediation typically involves a number of meetings between the couple and the mediator. So what happens at a mediation meeting? Before we answer that we should briefly mention another type of meeting related to mediation: the Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, or MIAM for short. MIAMs Before making an application to the court all applicants must first attend a MIAM, unless they are exempt. The MIAM is a first meeting with a mediator, to explain how mediation works, and to assess whether the case is suitable for mediation. If the case is assessed as being suitable then the couple can decide whether they want it to be referred to mediation. Essentially, the MIAM aims to inform those considering court action about mediation’s existence and assess its suitability for their case. What happens at a mediation meeting? Mediation meetings can involve the couple and the mediator meeting face to face in the same room. They can also take place as an online meeting. It is even possible for the couple to be in separate rooms, if that is preferred. Exactly what happens at a mediation meeting will vary from one case to another, and will depend upon the type of issue that needs resolution – an issue relating to arrangements for children or an issue relating to finances and property on separation or divorce. Generally, the mediator assists the couple in identifying agreed matters and resolving issues that require further discussion and resolution. The meetings are entirely confidential. Note that even if the mediator is a lawyer they will not provide legal advice, save to indicate in general whether a proposed solution is likely to be approved by the court. The mediator will however indicate to the parties when they might need independent advice upon a particular matter. (Note that the parties can take legal advice at any time during the mediation process.) In the course of the meetings the mediator will seek to ensure that both parties have an equal say, and that any proposed solution is fair to both parties and any children involved. If the meetings lead to an agreement, the mediator documents it and provides each party with a copy. Note that the agreement is not legally binding, but can be incorporated into a binding court order, if appropriate. And if the mediation is not entirely successful, the mediator will provide the couple with a written summary of the outstanding matters, and what action the couple should take next. How long does mediation take? There are no hard and fast rules as to how long the mediation process will take. The duration depends on the specific case, including the issues and their complexity. In general, however, the process might typically involve three to five meetings, each lasting between one and two hours. The meetings will usually be spread over a number of weeks, although more complex cases may take several months. Note that mediation concerning finances and property may take longer, as the couple will need to make full disclosure of their finances before the mediation can proceed, so that both parties and the mediator know exactly what is involved. For more information about family mediation, and how we can help, visit our family mediation page. How can we help? For further information on how we can help, please see our Expertise pages. Walker Family Law is an award-winning family law practice, recognised as one of the leading family law firms in the South West of England with services covering family law & mediation, divorce law, child-law and arbitration. Please contact us if you require any further information. Related insights July 22, 2024, by Walker Family Law How the court deals with parental alienation claims Child Arrangements | Child law | Family law July 17, 2024, by Walker Family Law 10 Common Family Law Questions Family law July 2, 2024, by Walker Family Law Successful Appeal to the Court Child law | Court | Family law View all