Divorce Support Club
As a team of experienced family lawyers we know that a separation or divorce can be one of the most stressful things you may go through in life. The Divorce Support Club provides individuals with a safe, informal place to ask questions and gather a toolkit to help you manage emotions, get clarity around the things that worry or scare you and focus on what you can do, so that you feel stronger and more confident.
Introducing the Divorce Support Club
‘New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?’ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm. Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.
To enable us to give you a level of emotional support which goes beyond that which family law solicitors are normally able to give, we have partnered with respected Divorce Coach Claire Macklin to provide a new, innovative and additional service, The Divorce Support Club. Claire is a Master NLP Practitioner, a former solicitor and has divorced twice. She has experienced divorce from both perspectives, once when the decision was made beyond her control, and again when she was the one making the decision. Claire navigated both of her divorces whilst raising her children, so she has been on both sides of the situation and is providing advice from experience and expertise. Following her first divorce, Claire wrote a book: Break-Up From Crisis to Confidence.
The Divorce Support Club provides individuals with a safe, informal place to ask questions and gather a toolkit to help manage emotions, get clarity around the things that worry or scare you and focus on what you CAN do, so that you feel stronger and more confident. Meeting via monthly online webinars we discuss strategies to help you take back your power, challenge negative thinking and focus on taking positive steps forward. Our aim is to create a friendly, supportive place where you can feel safe to ask any questions you might have, raise your concerns and learn new strategies to help you right now.
Our hosts
A handful of our Solicitors rotate in joining Claire each month to co-host the webinars. Fiona Griffin, Sue Ellingham, Natasha Alsop, Emily Green (all based in our Exeter office) and Kit O’Brien (based in our Taunton office) are members of the divorce and relationships team and bring an array of knowledge and advice to those going through, and possibly struggling with different aspects of their divorce.
Walker Family Law recognise that there are limitations to what we can do outside of our legal remit. We are committed to offering a holistic service, and to helping people create a powerful support team around them. We want you to have the right support from the right people, at the right time, whether that is legal, financial or emotional.
Key people
Who can sign up?
The Divorce Support Club is open to anyone that feels they would benefit from this support network. Whether you are in an active divorce or separation, you are divorced or separated but still living with your ex, or you haven’t yet begun the process of your divorce or separation. Everyone is welcome and your attendance is completely anonymous.
Perhaps you are finding the process overwhelming, and you feel confused about your options. Maybe you are worried about the impact of your separation on your children, or anxious about how to communicate with your ex. Or maybe you are not sure how to cope with the emotional ups and downs you are feeling. During our live sessions, we can answer any questions that you may have there and then using the Q&A feature, tailor our sessions to your needs.
‘New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?’ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm.Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.
Resources Library
Welcome to the Divorce Support Club Resources, here you will find a taster of useful resources that will support you whilst going through divorce. To view our full resource library which includes full guides, access to previous webinars, our podcast and book recommendations, sign up to our free Divorce Support Club below.
Please keep in mind that the information provided on this page is for general purposes only. Every divorce case is unique, and it is crucial to consult with professionals who can provide personalised advice based on your specific circumstances.
Join our free Divorce Support Club, and gain full access to our resource library and more…
‘New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?‘ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm.Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.
We provide the Divorce Support Club for free, because our aim is to help people who are finding the separation or divorce journey overwhelming.
Whether you are going through a separation or divorce or you are seeking a dissolution to a civil partnership. We will be covering lots of different areas and subjects.
For subscribers that are looking to access the resources page, simply re-enter your details below.
If you would like attend the next webinar, receive unlimited access to the full resource library, newsletter updates and details of the future webinars, just fill out your details below:
Disclaimer: The Divorce Support Club provides general information and support only and should not be relied upon as individual legal, financial or therapeutic advice.
Self Care
Practical guidance to help you prioritise your wellbeing and rebuild confidence after separation. Sessions cover topics from reconnecting with your body, rediscovering your identity, navigating menopause, boosting confidence through style, and planning a positive future.
Mind, Body and the Law
Getting to Know Yourself Again
Divorce and the Menopause
Dressing with Confidence
How to Create the Blueprint for a Bright Future
Valentine’s Day; Dos and Don’ts
Creating a Vibrant Future
Surviving the Early Days of Separation
Building Up Confidence And Trust In Yourself
Abusive & Difficult Situations
Support for those dealing with challenging or abusive relationships. Learn how to spot red flags, manage difficult ex-partners, safely leave abusive relationships, and protect your emotional wellbeing throughout the divorce process.
Going Through Divorce After Domestic Abuse
Leaving an Abusive Partner
Red Flags & Buzzwords
How to Handle a Challenging Ex
Divorcing a Difficult Personality
Child Related
Advice which focuses on helping yourself and your children through separation and divorce. Topics include talking to your children about divorce, co-parenting during holidays, supporting children emotionally, and navigating blended family dynamics.
Navigating Fatherhood and Divorce
Handling the Summer Holidays Mid Divorce
How to Tell Your Children That You’re Getting Divorced
Making Christmas a Happy Time for Your Children
Supporting your Children through your Divorce
Surviving the Summer Holidays as a Single Parent
Blended Family
Preparing for Christmas and the Holidays
Children and divorce: Nesting, conflict and the family home
Divorce Specific
Guidance on the legal, financial, and practical aspects of divorce. Sessions explore court processes, managing finances, understanding long-term marriage issues, and preparing yourself for life after divorce with actionable insights.
Your Finances Through Divorce
I’m Getting Divorced, Do I Have to Go to Court?
How to Learn from your Divorce
Can Divorce be a Good Thing?
What Not To Do During Divorce
My Holiday was a Disaster and I want a Divorce: What do I do?
Handling Divorce After a Long Marriage
My Spouse wants a Divorce: What do I do?
Navigating the Financial Fallout of Divorce
Getting Divorce Ready
When It Might Be Necessary To Go To Court, And How You Can Prepare
Divorce is so expensive: How can I reduce the cost?
Making Resolution Together work for you: The process, benefits, and handling challenges
Top tips for effective communication with your lawyer
The Form E: What you need and where to start
Avoiding financial mistakes in divorce
How to prepare for an FDR or court hearing
Emotions & Other
Support for managing the emotional impact of divorce. Learn strategies for handling anger, rebuilding trust, navigating new relationships, improving communication with an ex, and balancing career and personal life during separation.
Handling Divorce Alongside a Busy Career
How Do I Know When It’s Time to Leave?
Managing Your Anger
Cohabitation: Busting the myths
New Relationships and Dating
Strategies For Constructive Communication
Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
Terms and conditions
Fees
There is no charge for attending The Divorce Support Club.
Confidentiality
The meetings will not give specific legal advice and we will not answer questions in any way as to identify any of our clients or to breach the confidentiality.
Claire will not know anything about our clients cases other than what attendees choose to share in their questions.
The meetings will be run through Eventbrite. For logistical purposes the event bookings will be run through Claire Macklin’s Eventbrite account. Clients who wish to take part will agree to the sharing of their email addresses with Claire for the purpose of the divorce club mailing list.
The Divorce Club Mailing List will only be used for the purposes of The Divorce Support Club and the email addresses will be used for no other purpose. It is agreed with Claire that in the event of our partnership ending that the mailing list and historic mailing lists will be deleted.
Liability
We will not be giving legal advice during the meetings. Legal advice is only given by us on an individual basis, normally during a meeting (including videoconference or telephone) and/or in writing (including by email).
We do not therefore accept any liability for actions taken on the basis of generic information given during the divorce support club.
Claire is responsible for her own advice – which again is of a general and holistic nature.
Any financial adviser who attends the meeting as a guest will provide generic responses. However, it is not impossible that they will raise issues which will flag up that it will be important to take independent financial advice before making a decision. As a firm of solicitors we do not provide financial advice – and we are not regulated to do so. We would always recommend clients take financial advice before making decisions on financial matters. The intention of the divorce support club is that, armed with more general financial information, clients may be more inclined/find it easier to make the decision to obtain financial advice.
Fair usage
We have set this up as a free service. But numbers are limited. Therefore if anyone books fails to attend without good reason on more than one occasion then we reserve the right to remove them from the mailing list.
Addition to/removal from the mailing list
This is entirely at our discretion.
Cancellation
We reserve the right to cancel this service at any time and without notice.
How will Divorce Coaching help me?
Sometimes those going through a divorce or separation can find the experience to be emotionally overwhelming. Emotions such as grief and anger can get in the way of good decision-making.
Divorce coaching is forward-focused, and aims to help you get clarity, feel empowered, see options and choices, and turn down the temperature on your emotions so that you can make better decisions, and create a bright future.
Over the years we have seen too many cases where couples remain trapped in a level of conflict with each other which gets in the way of each of them enjoying a happy life and causes emotional harm to their children. Divorce coaching helps you to take a different perspective and focus on the steps you can take to move forward.
What if I want additional coaching?
Clients who would like to engage Claire for additional coaching may do so by interacting directly with Claire: https://www.clairemacklincoaching.com/contact
How do I sign up?
To sign up to our Divorce Support Club, please fill out your details above. The mailing list will only be used for the purposes of The Divorce Support Club.
Each month an email will be sent out inviting clients who wish to attend to sign up to the next Divorce Support Club Meeting via Eventbrite. Places will be available on a first-come, first-served basis, and places are limited.
We will keep a waiting list of those who do not secure a place. Therefore, if you have booked and are not able to attend, we would ask you to let us know so that we can make the place available to someone else.
We will apply a fair usage policy, so if someone were to be a serial non-attender, we would have to remove them from the invitation list.
There is more information about this in the terms and conditions which will apply (see below).
If you are an existing client and you are not aware of The Divorce Support Club but would like to join, please just email us and we will add you to our mailing list.
Who is Claire, and what is a Divorce Coach?
Claire is an NLP Master Practitioner, former lawyer, a mother and divorcee.
Claire specialises in coaching individuals through separation and divorce, giving emotional support, and providing strategies and skills which will empower you to make the best choices and to equip you to create a fulfilling future. She is the author of a book called: “Break-up: From Crisis to Confidence”.
Divorce Coaching is a relatively new phenomena in the UK. Coaching gives you strategies to recognise and work through your emotions and explore ways in which you can get clarity, take back control, see options and choices and take steps to move forward positively.
You can find more about Claire here.
Will the other attendees know who I am?
The meeting will operate as a virtual seminar – so only Claire Macklin, Lauren Preedy, and any guests will be visible. Attendees will not be able to see each other or know who each other are.
Supplemental questions can be posted and answered in real time through the videoconference platform.
Attendees need to be aware that there will be other attendees. When answering questions (including questions submitted in advance) we will answer in broad terms so that those asking questions are not identified.
What will a session look like?
There will be a short presentation on a different topic each month.
You will be invited to submit questions/issues in advance of each meeting, and we will try to answer all of them in the session.
The sessions usually last for around an hour.
When are the meetings?
The Divorce Support Club meets via video conference each month between 1 PM and 2 PM.
Fill out your details above and we will send you the link to the next webinar, plus access to previous webinars.
Disclaimer
The information shared through the Divorce Support Club, including webinars, newsletters, downloadable materials and social media content, is intended for general information and support purposes only. It should not be taken as legal advice, financial advice, counselling or therapy, and should not replace advice tailored to your individual circumstances.
Every relationship and family situation is different, so we would always recommend seeking professional advice specific to your own circumstances before making any decisions.
Participation in the Divorce Support Club does not create a solicitor-client relationship with Walker Family Law, nor a coaching or therapeutic relationship with Claire Macklin.
Any views shared by guest speakers are their own and are intended for general discussion and information purposes only.