Divorce Support Club

As a team of experienced family lawyers we know that a separation or divorce can be one of the most stressful things you may go through in life. The Divorce Support Club provides individuals with a safe, informal place to ask questions and gather a toolkit to help you manage emotions, get clarity around the things that worry or scare you and focus on what you can do, so that you feel stronger and more confident.

Introducing the Divorce Support Club

New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?’ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm. Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.

To enable us to give you a level of emotional support which goes beyond that which family law solicitors are normally able to give, we have partnered with respected Divorce Coach Claire Macklin to provide a new, innovative and additional service, The Divorce Support Club. Claire is a Master NLP Practitioner, a former solicitor and has divorced twice. She has experienced divorce from both perspectives, once when the decision was made beyond her control, and again when she was the one making the decision. Claire navigated both of her divorces whilst raising her children, so she has been on both sides of the situation and is providing advice from experience and expertise. Following her first divorce, Claire wrote a book: Break-Up From Crisis to Confidence.   

The Divorce Support Club provides individuals with a safe, informal place to ask questions and gather a toolkit to help manage emotions, get clarity around the things that worry or scare you and focus on what you CAN do, so that you feel stronger and more confident. Meeting via monthly online webinars we discuss strategies to help you take back your power, challenge negative thinking and focus on taking positive steps forward. Our aim is to create a friendly, supportive place where you can feel safe to ask any questions you might have, raise your concerns and learn new strategies to help you right now.  

Our hosts

A handful of our Solicitors rotate in joining Claire each month to co-host the webinars. Fiona Griffin, Sue Ellingham, Natasha Alsop, Emily Green (all based in our Exeter office) and Kit O’Brien (based in our Taunton office) are members of the divorce and relationships team and bring an array of knowledge and advice to those going through, and possibly struggling with different aspects of their divorce.  

Walker Family Law recognise that there are limitations to what we can do outside of our legal remit. We are committed to offering a holistic service, and to helping people create a powerful support team around them. We want you to have the right support from the right people, at the right time, whether that is legal, financial or emotional.  

Who can sign up?

The Divorce Support Club is open to anyone that feels they would benefit from this support network. Whether you are in an active divorce or separation, you are divorced or separated but still living with your ex, or you haven’t yet begun the process of your divorce or separation. Everyone is welcome and your attendance is completely anonymous. 

Perhaps you are finding the process overwhelming, and you feel confused about your options. Maybe you are worried about the impact of your separation on your children, or anxious about how to communicate with your ex. Or maybe you are not sure how to cope with the emotional ups and downs you are feeling. During our live sessions, we can answer any questions that you may have there and then using the Q&A feature, tailor our sessions to your needs.  

New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?’ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm.Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.

Resources Library

Welcome to the Divorce Support Club Resources, here you will find a taster of useful resources that will support you whilst going through divorce. To view our full resource library which includes full guides, access to previous webinars, our podcast and book recommendations, sign up to our free Divorce Support Club below.  

Please keep in mind that the information provided on this page is for general purposes only. Every divorce case is unique, and it is crucial to consult with professionals who can provide personalised advice based on your specific circumstances. 

Join our free Divorce Support Club, and gain full access to our resource library and more…

New relationships: How do I avoid making the same mistakes again?‘ is the discussion topic at our next Divorce Support Club webinar, taking place on Wednesday 16th September between 1 and 2pm.Use the sign up form at the bottom of the page to join the webinar.

We provide the Divorce Support Club for free, because our aim is to help people who are finding the separation or divorce journey overwhelming.

Whether you are going through a separation or divorce or you are seeking a dissolution to a civil partnership. We will be covering lots of different areas and subjects.

If you would like attend the next webinar, receive unlimited access to the full resource library, newsletter updates and details of the future webinars, just fill out your details below:

Self Care

Practical guidance to help you prioritise your wellbeing and rebuild confidence after separation. Sessions cover topics from reconnecting with your body, rediscovering your identity, navigating menopause, boosting confidence through style, and planning a positive future.

Mind body and the law

Mind, Body and the Law

In this months session we wanted to bring you something a little bit different and to help you reconnect with your body and prioritise self care. Joined by guest speaker Matt Pannell, you won’t want to miss out on these tips.
Taster Guide

Getting to Know Yourself Again

You’ve gone through the divorce process, but now what? You might be feeling slightly lost, or like you don’t really know who you are when you’re on your own. That is what we’re here for this month, we’ve put together some tips to help you rediscover yourself.
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Divorce and the Menopause

We know that the menopause is something women experience. We also know that the average age for a woman to divorce is 45-49 years old, so it isn’t unheard of to be going through both menopause and divorce at the same time. This month, we’re focusing on how to approach and manage these challenges.
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Dressing with Confidence

Something that isn’t discussed very often, but is a common struggle, is your confidence after going through a divorce. This month we have tackled the subject of dressing with confidence, where our guest speaker Becky Barnes, gave great advice and Natasha, one of our solicitors, gave us some legal insight.
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How to Create the Blueprint for a Bright Future

A separation or divorce is a time of major change and uncertainty. In this webinar we discussed how to create the blueprint for your bright future. We go through what really matters to you, and taking back control by making small, positive changes to your life.
Taster Guide
Couple on café date

Valentine’s Day; Dos and Don’ts

How do you know when you’re ready? The answer will be different for everyone. It’s important to be honest about your intentions. Download our taster guide below for our top tips.
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Creating a Vibrant Future

A separation or divorce is a time of huge and often unsettling change. In this webinar we discussed what really matters to you, and consider what principles you want to build your life around. Download our guide to read our three tips on how to create a vibrant future.
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Surviving the Early Days of Separation

Separating from your partner is never easy, and there is no way to completely eliminate the negative emotions that you will feel. However, our aim is to bring you some tips that will lessen the difficulty of surviving the early days of separation.
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Building Up Confidence And Trust In Yourself

Navigating life after divorce can be challenging, but building confidence and trusting yourself is key to moving forward. In this webinar, we share practical tips and strategies to help you strengthen self-belief, make decisions with clarity, and approach the future with confidence.
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Abusive & Difficult Situations

Support for those dealing with challenging or abusive relationships. Learn how to spot red flags, manage difficult ex-partners, safely leave abusive relationships, and protect your emotional wellbeing throughout the divorce process.

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Going Through Divorce After Domestic Abuse

Going through a divorce after surviving domestic abuse can be an incredibly difficult situation. This month we’re glad to be joined by divorce coach and domestic abuse survivor, Caron Kipping, who is here to help guide you through this difficult time.
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Leaving an Abusive Partner

Leaving an abusive partner can be incredibly challenging, but it is a step towards reclaiming your life. This month, we’ve put together some insights and strategies to support you through this situation and to help you take charge of your future with confidence.
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Red Flags & Buzzwords

When contemplating leaving a narcissistic partner, or entering into a new relationship, it’s important to know what red flags to look for. Our guide looks at some of the traits of narcissists and how to deal with them, along with how to spot red flags in new relationships.
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How to Handle a Challenging Ex

Recognising how a relationship is affecting you is a good first step to taking back your power. You may well be feeling a whole raft of emotions right now, so it’s important to focus on what you can control. Our guide looks at what you can do to maintain emotional stability by using tips and techniques.
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Divorcing a Difficult Personality

We help you navigate the challenges of separating from someone who’s hard to deal with. We’ll share practical tips for handling conflict, looking after your wellbeing, and keeping the process as calm as possible, so you can feel more in control and ready to move forward.
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Child Related

Advice which focuses on helping yourself and your children through separation and divorce. Topics include talking to your children about divorce, co-parenting during holidays, supporting children emotionally, and navigating blended family dynamics.

Fatherhood

Navigating Fatherhood and Divorce

Navigating fatherhood whilst going through a divorce can be tricky, and that’s why this month we’re here to guide you with the help of Mr Divorce Coach – Tom Nash.
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Handling the Summer Holidays Mid Divorce

Going into the summer holidays as a co-parent for the first time? This months Divorce Support Club was packed with helpful advice to guide you through the challenge and make things a little easier.
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How to Tell Your Children That You’re Getting Divorced

Accepting your divorce is one thing, telling your children is another. This month we wanted to support you through that difficult conversation, with as much helpful advice and as many resources as possible.
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Making Christmas a Happy Time for Your Children

Parents that have gone through divorce will know all too well the anxiety surrounding what to do at Christmas, especially the first Christmas following the divorce. We wanted to help ease some of that anxiety by providing valuable tips on how to make Christmas a happy time for you and your children.
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Supporting your Children through your Divorce

We know that divorce is a tricky time for everyone involved, but it can be especially difficult for your children. This month we have given you tips on how to support your children through this tricky time. By using these tips, you will strengthen and grow your relationship with your children.
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Surviving the Summer Holidays as a Single Parent

The summer holidays as a single parent can be an overwhelming challenge. The thought of planning a holiday or negotiating with your ex might fill you with dread. In this session we give you tips on how to plan a holiday and how to handle communication.
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Blended Family

A blended family is where you and your partner make a life together with children from one or both of your previous relationships. In this webinar we explored with Divorce Coach Claire Macklin, how to build a strong blended family. Our guide provides five tips for building a strong blended family.
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Preparing for Christmas and the Holidays

Many of those going through a divorce or a separation dread the holiday season, particularly if it’s the first one without seeing their children. In this webinar we look at how you can positively reframe Christmas, create new traditions, and navigate your emotions with clarity and confidence.
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Children and divorce: Nesting, conflict and the family home

This webinar explores how parents can support their children through separation with a focus on stability, communication and emotional wellbeing. The discussion highlights what children need to feel safe and secure during this transition. With practical insights and strategies, it encourages parents to focus on reducing conflict, prioritising relationships, and taking a long-term, child-focused approach.
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Divorce Specific

Guidance on the legal, financial, and practical aspects of divorce. Sessions explore court processes, managing finances, understanding long-term marriage issues, and preparing yourself for life after divorce with actionable insights.

Your Finances Through Divorce

In this session we have partnered with Cooper Associates to bring you insight on how to deal with your finances through divorce. From the emotional side of finance to the practical side, Kate Ward and John Harris have given some invaluable tips.
Taster Guide

I’m Getting Divorced, Do I Have to Go to Court?

“Do I have to go to court?” It’s a question we hear all the time. This month we wanted to provide you with an answer to that question, and explain what makes this situation slightly more complicated than you might initially think.
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how to learn from your divorce

How to Learn from your Divorce

Whilst divorce can be one of the most challenging times of your life, it can also be a time to learn. Whether it be about yourself, your friends and family, your children, or what you want in a person, our aim is to help you learn from your divorce.
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Can Divorce be a Good Thing?

Looking at divorce in a negative light is easy, people often feel like they’ve failed. But that doesn’t have to be the case. We’ve given you tips on how to view your divorce in a more positive light, and how to focus on the positives coming your way.
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Couple arguing

What Not To Do During Divorce

Facing a divorce is a new challenge, and it’s difficult to navigate the do’s and don’ts. That’s why we have set out what not to do, and what to do instead. We want to help you make your divorce as quick, easy and painless as you can.
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My Holiday was a Disaster and I want a Divorce: What do I do?

A bad holiday may not be a reason to get divorced, but it may certainly be the final straw in many relationships. In this webinar, we talked about how to evaluate your relationship should you find yourself in this situation.
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handling divorce after a long marriage

Handling Divorce After a Long Marriage

Divorcing after a long marriage has unique problems. Chartered Financial Planner Carolyn Matravers talks about the financial implications of divorcing after a long marriage.
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Divorcing couple

My Spouse wants a Divorce: What do I do?

Being delivered the news that your spouse wants a divorce is never easy to hear. In this webinar we discuss emotional strategies to help you cope with the aftermath of being told that your spouse wants a divorce.
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Navigating the Financial Fallout of Divorce

Navigating the financial fallout of a divorce is oftentimes one of the most challenging aspects of the divorce journey. In this session we look at how a financial advisor can assist you in effectively planning for you future with guest speaker and Chartered Financial Planner, Dan Gornall.
Taster Guide

Getting Divorce Ready

Everyone’s divorce journey is unique. All these stages are completely normal reactions to a breakup. Knowing where you are in the grieving cycle and naming your feelings can be beneficial. Learn how to get divorce ready by downloading our guide, or watching our webinar.
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When It Might Be Necessary To Go To Court, And How You Can Prepare

Understanding when you might need to go to court in your divorce and knowing how to prepare for that can bring a sense of calm and control. Watch/listen to our webinar to learn what to expect, how to steady yourself emotionally, and the specific situations in which court might be necessary.
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Divorce is so expensive: How can I reduce the cost?

Divorce does not have to be as expensive as many people fear. In this webinar, we explore the main reasons legal costs can escalate during divorce and, more importantly, the practical steps you can take to keep them under control.
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Making Resolution Together work for you: The process, benefits, and handling challenges

Learn how Resolution Together helps couples share one solicitor, receive joint legal advice, and resolve separation issues collaboratively and with minimal conflict.
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Top tips for effective communication with your lawyer

Clear communication is at the heart of a productive working relationship with your lawyer. Learn the practical ways to make those conversations more effective, helping you feel more confident about what to share, when to share it, and how to ensure nothing important gets missed.
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The Form E: What you need and where to start

This webinar explores what the form involves, how to gather and complete information even when details are missing, and the importance of honesty, early preparation, and ongoing disclosure. Learn how to navigate the emotional impact of the process while understanding how completing Form E can ultimately bring clarity, support fair negotiation, and help people move forward.
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Avoiding financial mistakes in divorce

In this webinar, Walker Family Law solicitor Natasha Alsop is joined by divorce coach Claire Macklin and chartered financial planner Dan Gornall to discuss five of the most common financial pitfalls people face during divorce. From pensions and property to long-term financial planning and emotional decision-making, they share practical guidance to help you make informed choices and protect your future.
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How to prepare for an FDR or court hearing

This webinar discusses Financial Dispute Resolution (FDR) hearings, explaining what they are, what to expect on the day and how to prepare. It covers the process of reaching an agreement, what happens if an agreement cannot be reached, practical considerations when attending court, and how to prepare emotionally and financially. It also explores how an FDR can help couples reach a settlement while retaining greater control over the outcome.
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Emotions & Other

Support for managing the emotional impact of divorce. Learn strategies for handling anger, rebuilding trust, navigating new relationships, improving communication with an ex, and balancing career and personal life during separation.

Handling Divorce Alongside a Busy Career

Balancing a busy career while going through divorce isn’t easy. That’s why this month we decided to focus on how best to handle the challenges that you may face.
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How do i know when it's time to leave

How Do I Know When It’s Time to Leave?

If you’re caught between trying to make it work or moving towards divorce, this months Divorce Support Club tips may help bring the clarity you’re looking for.
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Managing Your Anger

Anger is a normal part of going through a separation. There are a number of different emotions you will experience throughout various stages of your separation. It’s how you deal with them that’s important.
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Cohabitation: Busting the myths

Cohabitation after divorce can be tricky to navigate. What are your rights? Is it similar to marriage? Can I cohabit before my divorce is finalised? Our webinar this month goes through all of this and more. We’ve summed up a few key points in our guide for you.
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New Relationships and Dating

After a divorce, new relationships and dating can be daunting. This month we have compiled some tips and tricks to help you pin point what you want. Use our guide to answer the tricky questions before you begin dating, and then enjoy yourself!
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Strategies For Constructive Communication

When a relationship breaks down, the communication going forward can become difficult, hostile and unpleasant. Our tips are designed to help you move past the negativity and learn how to communicate with your ex partner in an effective way.
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Rebuilding Trust in Relationships

Trust is the foundation of any healthy and successful relationship. We may not realise this, but the ability to trust someone can have numerous positive effects on an individual’s well-being. Here, we look at how you can build trust within yourself and with others.
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Terms and conditions

Fees

There is no charge for attending The Divorce Support Club.

Confidentiality

The meetings will not give specific legal advice and we will not answer questions in any way as to identify any of our clients or to breach the confidentiality.

Claire will not know anything about our clients cases other than what attendees choose to share in their questions.

The meetings will be run through Eventbrite. For logistical purposes the event bookings will be run through Claire Macklin’s Eventbrite account. Clients who wish to take part will agree to the sharing of their email addresses with Claire for the purpose of the divorce club mailing list.

The Divorce Club Mailing List will only be used for the purposes of The Divorce Support Club and the email addresses will be used for no other purpose. It is agreed with Claire that in the event of our partnership ending that the mailing list and historic mailing lists will be deleted.

Liability

We will not be giving legal advice during the meetings. Legal advice is only given by us on an individual basis, normally during a meeting (including videoconference or telephone) and/or in writing (including by email).

We do not therefore accept any liability for actions taken on the basis of generic information given during the divorce support club.

Claire is responsible for her own advice – which again is of a general and holistic nature.

Any financial adviser who attends the meeting as a guest will provide generic responses. However, it is not impossible that they will raise issues which will flag up that it will be important to take independent financial advice before making a decision. As a firm of solicitors we do not provide financial advice – and we are not regulated to do so. We would always recommend clients take financial advice before making decisions on financial matters. The intention of the divorce support club is that, armed with more general financial information, clients may be more inclined/find it easier to make the decision to obtain financial advice.

Fair usage

We have set this up as a free service. But numbers are limited. Therefore if anyone books fails to attend without good reason on more than one occasion then we reserve the right to remove them from the mailing list.

Addition to/removal from the mailing list

This is entirely at our discretion.

Cancellation

We reserve the right to cancel this service at any time and without notice.

How will Divorce Coaching help me?

Sometimes those going through a divorce or separation can find the experience to be emotionally overwhelming. Emotions such as grief and anger can get in the way of good decision-making.

Divorce coaching is forward-focused, and aims to help you get clarity, feel empowered, see options and choices, and turn down the temperature on your emotions so that you can make better decisions, and create a bright future.

Over the years we have seen too many cases where couples remain trapped in a level of conflict with each other which gets in the way of each of them enjoying a happy life and causes emotional harm to their children. Divorce coaching helps you to take a different perspective and focus on the steps you can take to move forward.

What if I want additional coaching?

Clients who would like to engage Claire for additional coaching may do so by interacting directly with Claire: https://www.clairemacklincoaching.com/contact

How do I sign up?

To sign up to our Divorce Support Club, please fill out your details above. The mailing list will only be used for the purposes of The Divorce Support Club.

Each month an email will be sent out inviting clients who wish to attend to sign up to the next Divorce Support Club Meeting via Eventbrite. Places will be available on a first-come, first-served basis, and places are limited.

We will keep a waiting list of those who do not secure a place. Therefore, if you have booked and are not able to attend, we would ask you to let us know so that we can make the place available to someone else.

We will apply a fair usage policy, so if someone were to be a serial non-attender, we would have to remove them from the invitation list.

There is more information about this in the terms and conditions which will apply (see below).

If you are an existing client and you are not aware of The Divorce Support Club but would like to join, please just email us and we will add you to our mailing list.

Who is Claire, and what is a Divorce Coach?

Claire is an NLP Master Practitioner, former lawyer, a mother and divorcee.

Claire specialises in coaching individuals through separation and divorce, giving emotional support, and providing strategies and skills which will empower you to make the best choices and to equip you to create a fulfilling future.  She is the author of a book called: “Break-up: From Crisis to Confidence”.

Divorce Coaching is a relatively new phenomena in the UK. Coaching  gives you strategies to recognise and work through your emotions and explore ways in which you can get clarity, take back control, see options and choices and take steps to move forward positively.

You can find more about Claire here.

Will the other attendees know who I am?

The meeting will operate as a virtual seminar – so only Claire Macklin, Lauren Preedy, and any guests will be visible. Attendees will not be able to see each other or know who each other are.

Supplemental questions can be posted and answered in real time through the videoconference platform.

Attendees need to be aware that there will be other attendees. When answering questions (including questions submitted in advance) we will answer in broad terms so that those asking questions are not identified.

What will a session look like?

There will be a short presentation on a different topic each month.

You will be invited to submit questions/issues in advance of each meeting, and we will try to answer all of them in the session.

The sessions usually last for around an hour.

When are the meetings?

The Divorce Support Club meets via video conference each month between 1 PM and 2 PM.

Fill out your details above and we will send you the link to the next webinar, plus access to previous webinars.

Disclaimer

The information shared through the Divorce Support Club, including webinars, newsletters, downloadable materials and social media content, is intended for general information and support purposes only. It should not be taken as legal advice, financial advice, counselling or therapy, and should not replace advice tailored to your individual circumstances.

Every relationship and family situation is different, so we would always recommend seeking professional advice specific to your own circumstances before making any decisions.

Participation in the Divorce Support Club does not create a solicitor-client relationship with Walker Family Law, nor a coaching or therapeutic relationship with Claire Macklin.

Any views shared by guest speakers are their own and are intended for general discussion and information purposes only.